BEWARE THERE ARE 12 DISEASES IN HOUSEHOLD
1. CUTS:
LESS KNOWLEDGE OF MARRIAGE.
Households will be successful if guided by religious knowledge. The religious knowledge of a qualified husband and wife will be given goodness in his household. The Apostle said:
اللهُ ا الدِّين
Meaning: "Whoever Allah wills goodness, then he will be understood in the science of religion." (Narrated by Bukhari)
2. CURE:
LACK OF KNOWLEDGE DIRECTIONS AND PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE.
The purpose of marriage as in Surah Rum verse 21, is so that we can live in peace full of tranquility, take care of each other, complement each other and make each other happy.
اتِهِ لَقَ لَكُمْ اجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا
And among the signs of His power is that He created for you wives of your own kind, so that you may have peace (Ar-rum: 21)
3. Leprosy:
LESS PATIENCE TO REACH THINGS.
Go up the stairs from the first ladder first! Most of us want to go straight to the top of the ladder.
Of course not! So be patient in the process of being married, in shaa Allah, you will reach the top of the ladder at last. Allah says:
اأَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ امَنُوا اصْبِرُوا ابِرُوا ابِطُوا اتَّقُوا اللَّهَ لَعَلَّكُمْ لِحُونَ
"O you who believe, be patient and strengthen your patience and stay alert and fear Allah so that you will be successful." (Aali 'Imraan: 200)
4. scabies:
LESS MANAGE MONEY ALWAYS OUT.
Incompetent financial management, unable to determine priority scale, unable to refrain from spending that is not important and neglecting basic and long-term needs, usually because of being extravagant, the household will eventually fall apart.
So be good at managing money, and not wasteful. In sha Allah the family will be peaceful and established. Allah swt says:
لا ا الْمُبَذِّرِينَ انُوا انَ الشَّيَاطِينِ
"And do not squander (your wealth) extravagantly. Verily, the spenders are the brothers of Satan." (Surat al-Isro': 26-27).
5. CANCER:
DRY POCKET
Because we are wasteful, because we are lazy, because we don't want to learn to be smart, we end up poor. So the poor situation will have a lot of demonic whispers, a lot of squabbles, frequent fights and so on.
So learn a lot, don't be wasteful and work hard, in sha Allah we will be free from the very suffocating poverty:
The Messenger of Allah said:
ادَ الفَقْرُ ا
"Almost poverty (poverty) becomes disbelief"
(Imam al-Baihaqi in the book "Syu'abul Iman" (no. 6612)
6. Constipation:
GOD AND GIVING ARE VERY DIFFICULT.
If all family members are stingy then rizki will be difficult.
Even if there is a family who is stingy but rizki continues to skyrocket, it must be istidraj. Being stingy makes all household matters complicated.
But if you are generous, all household matters will be full of goodness and blessings.
Rasulullah said:
لِ مِنْ كَسْبٍ – لاَ لُ اللَّهُ لاَّ الطَّيِّبَ – اللَّهَ لُهَا ثُمَّ ا لِصَاحِبِهِاَ ا أَحَدُكُمْ لُوَّهُ لَهُ، تَكُوْنَ لَ الْجَبَلِ
"Whoever gives charity with a date from a good effort - and Allah will not accept anything but good - then Allah will accept it with His right hand and develop it for its owner (who spends) as one of you breeds a foal or a child. his camel, until the treasure is full of hills.” (HR. Bukhari)
7. FUN:
"SEEING" WIFE OR HUSBAND
One of the rights of a partner that becomes an obligation for other couples that must be fulfilled by each partner is bodily needs.
So if this is ignored, it will become a rift. That is why Allah commands in the Qur'an:
ا للَّهُۚ
".. When they (wives) have purified (big bath) then "come" them (wives) in the place that Allah has commanded you .." (Surah Al-Baqarah: 222)
8. TYPE:
DON'T CARE FEELINGS.
Not understanding each other and not caring about the feelings of each partner will make partners hurt and hurt each other.
The Messenger of Allah said:
لأهله ا لأهلي
"The best among you is the best at treating his family, and I am the best at treating the family." (HR Ibn Majah)
9. MALARIA:
FIND ANOTHER MAN/LOOK ANOTHER WOMAN.
Another household disease is boredom to a partner. Both bored with his physique, attitude and togetherness. So if you can't beat the boredom.
Finally, there are those who have cheated by getting divorced or suing for divorce. Those who are thinking of divorce, fear the words of the Prophet:
ا امْرَأَةٍ لَتْ ا لاقًا ا فَحَرَامٌ لَيْهَا ائِحَةُ الْجَنَّة
"Any woman who asks (demands) her husband for a divorce without a justified reason, the smell of heaven is forbidden for that woman." (HR. Abu Dawud)
10. Ringworm:
LESS NEAT.
Many wives and husbands are tempted to other than their partners because husband and wife at home do not pay attention to tidiness, cleanliness, appropriateness and beauty.
So improve our appearance by appearing in front of our partner with the best appearance. Rasulullah said:
النِّسَاءِ ا ا ا الِكَ
"The best of wives are those who are pleasing to you when you see them, obedient when you command them, and take care of themselves and your property while you are away." (HR. Tabrani)
11. Nausea:
IGNORE HALAL AFFAIRS.
If the husband / wife has already recited the Koran, has performed Umrah, has performed Hajj, etc. but still has problems at home.
So check the halal sustenance of his family, because the sustenance of haram is hot by nature. The Apostle said:
لاَ لَحْمٌ لاَّ انَتِ النَّارُ لَى
"Human flesh does not grow from things that are haram except that hell is more important to him. [Narrated by Tirmidhi]
12. ACNE:
NEVER PRAY THROUGH PRAYER.
Don't underestimate the prayer for the good of the household. Because prayer is the energy that revives the family, prayer is the fortress that protects the family, prayer is the dew that will cool the family. Practice the ma'tsur prayer from the Qur'an for the good of the household below:
ا لَنَا اجِنَا اتِنَا اجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ امًا
"Our Lord, grant us our wives and our descendants as pleasing to (our) hearts, and make us priests for those who are pious" (Surah Al Furqan: 74).
HOPE WE ARE KEEP AWAY FROM THE 12 HOUSEHOLD DISEASES ABOVE.
AND MAY ALLAH SWT BLESS US WITH THE SAKINAH FAMILY